Thoughtful Thursday. A lot of addiction treatment gets imagined as someone telling a person what they need to do. Motivational interviewing works the opposite way. It helps a person find their own reasons to change, rather than being handed someone else’s.
What Motivational Interviewing Is
Motivational interviewing, often shortened to MI, is a counseling approach built around resolving ambivalence rather than confronting resistance. According to SAMHSA’s Treatment Improvement Protocol 35, the core goals of MI are to express empathy and help clients identify their own reasons for, and commitment to, changing substance use and other unhealthy behaviors.
MI was developed by psychologists William Miller and Stephen Rollnick, who noticed that confrontational approaches to addiction counseling often made people defensive rather than motivated. MI takes the opposite stance: collaborative, curious, and centered on the client’s own values rather than a counselor’s directives.
Why Ambivalence is the Target
Most people considering a change in substance use are not entirely unwilling. They are ambivalent, holding both a desire to change and a pull toward staying the same, often at the same time. Traditional confrontational approaches tend to push against the “staying the same” side, which frequently produces defensiveness rather than movement.
MI works differently. Instead of arguing against the ambivalence, a counselor trained in MI helps a person talk through it out loud, often surfacing the person’s own reasons for change in the process. Hearing yourself articulate a reason tends to be more motivating than hearing someone else argue it for you.
What This Looks Like in a Session
MI sessions do not look like lectures or confrontations. They typically involve open-ended questions, reflective listening, and a deliberate avoidance of arguing or persuading. A counselor might ask what a person’s life would look like if things were different, or what has made them consider treatment now, rather than listing reasons why they should quit.
This approach requires real clinical skill. It is not simply being nice or avoiding hard topics. A trained MI practitioner can guide a conversation toward change without ever telling a client what to do directly.
Where the Evidence Actually Stands
MI has a substantial evidence base, though the research paints a more measured picture than some marketing around it suggests. SAMHSA notes that MI is associated with reduced alcohol and drug use, improved retention in substance use treatment programs after detox, and better retention in methadone maintenance programs.
A broader systematic review of MI across health and social care settings found small but statistically significant benefits in several areas, including reduced binge drinking and reduced substance use in people with dependency, though the review also noted that much of the underlying evidence is only low to moderate quality. This does not mean MI does not work. It means MI works best as one tool among several, not a standalone cure.

Why Motivational Interviewing Often Gets Paired with Other Therapies
MI is frequently combined with other approaches, particularly cognitive behavioral therapy. MI tends to help build the motivation to engage in change, and then Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and similar therapies then provide the concrete skills to sustain it. Used together, the two approaches address different parts of the same problem: wanting to change, and knowing how.
This is part of why MI shows up so often at the beginning of treatment. And it includes intake conversations, where it can reduce the high dropout rates that often occur at that exact stage.
The Bottom Line
Motivational interviewing is not about being told what to do. It is a structured, evidence-supported way of helping someone access reasons for change that were already there, just harder to hear over the ambivalence. Our treatment programs incorporate motivational interviewing as part of a broader approach. They are not as a replacement for the other clinical work recovery requires. If you’re weighing whether now is the right time, our online pre-screen assessment is a great way to start that conversation.
